The query set documentation states that upon completion queries can be
retrieved for the lifetime of the query set. This is a reasonable
expectation but does not currently occur. This was originally done
to resolve a circular reference between queries and query sets, but
in practice the query can be kept.

This change makes it so a query does not have a reference to the
query set until it begins resolving. It also makes it so that the
reference is given up upon the query being completed. This allows
the queries to remain for the lifetime of the query set. As the
query set on the query is only useful to the query set functionality
and only for the lifetime that the query is resolving this is safe
to do.

ASTERISK-24994 #close
Reported by: Joshua Colp

Change-Id: I54e09c0cb45475896654e7835394524e816d1aa0