msg_create_from_file currently does not dispatch emails,
which means that applications using this function, such
as MixMonitor, will not trigger notifications to users
(only AMI events are sent our currently). This is inconsistent
with other ways users can receive voicemail.

This is fixed by adding an option that attempts to send
an email and falling back to just the notifications as
done now if that fails. The existing behavior remains
the default.

ASTERISK-30283 #close

Change-Id: I597cbb9cf971a18d8776172b26ab187dc096a5c7