res_pjsip_refer: Fix crash from a REFER and BYE collision.

Analyzing a one-off crash on a busy system showed that processing a REFER
request had a NULL session channel pointer.  The only way I can think of
that could cause this is if an outgoing BYE transaction overlapped the
incoming REFER transaction in a collision.  Asterisk sends a BYE while the
phone sends a REFER to complete an attended transfer.

* Made check the session channel pointer before processing an incoming
REFER request in res_pjsip_refer.

* Fixed similar crash potential for res_pjsip supplement incoming request
processing for res_pjsip_sdp_rtp INFO, res_pjsip_caller_id INVITE/UPDATE,
res_pjsip_messaging MESSAGE, and res_pjsip_send_to_voicemail REFER
messages.

* Made res_pjsip_messaging respond to a message body too large with a 413
instead of ignoring it.

ASTERISK-24700 #close
Reported by: Zane Conkle

Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/4417/
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