Track module use count for res_calendar

If the res_calendar module was followed immediately by one of the
calendar tech modules and "core stop gracefully" was run, Asterisk
would crash.

This patch adds use count tracking for res_calendar so that it is
unloaded after the tech modules when shutting down gracefully. It
is now not possible to unload all the of the calendar modules via
"module unload res_calednar.so", but it is still possible to unload
them all via "module unload -h res_calendar.so".

Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/1752/
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