res_pjsip: Upgraded bundled pjsip to 2.13

Removed multiple patches.

Code chages in res_pjsip_pubsub due to changes in evsub.

Pjsip now calls on_evsub_state() before on_rx_refresh(),
so the sub tree deletion that used to take place in
on_evsub_state() now must take place in on_rx_refresh().

Additionally, pjsip now requires that you send the NOTIFY
from within on_rx_refresh(), otherwise it will assert
when going to send the 200 OK. The idea is that it will
look for this NOTIFY and cache it until after sending the
response in order to deal with the self-imposed message
mis-order. Asterisk previously dealt with this by pushing
the NOTIFY in on_rx_refresh(), but pjsip now forces us
to use it's method.

Changes were required to configure in order to detect
which way pjsip handles this as the two are not
compatible for the reasons mentioned above.

A corresponding change in testsuite is required in order
to deal with the small interal timing changes caused by
moving the NOTIFY send.

ASTERISK-30325

Change-Id: I50b00cac89d950d3511d7b250a1c641965d9fe7f