channels: Allow updating variable value

When modifying an already defined variable in some channel drivers they
add a new variable with the same name to the list, but that value is
never used, only the first one found.

Introduce ast_variable_list_replace() and use it where appropriate.

ASTERISK-23756 #close
Patches:
  setvar-multiplie.patch submitted by Michael Goryainov

Change-Id: Ie1897a96c82b8945e752733612ee963686f32839