manager: Register atexit shutdown routine only once.

* Made register atexit shutdown routine only once in __init_manager().

* Fixed some initial load failure conditions in __init_manager().

* Made reset options to defaults on reload when the reload will actually
happen.

* Removed unnecessary container traversals of the white/black filters
during manager_free_user().

* ast_free() does not need a NULL check before calling.
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