dont use deprecated commands in the init scripts.

(closes issue #13720)
Reported by: decryptus_proformatique
Patches:
      contrib_initd_module_reload.patch uploaded by decryptus (license 555)
	  With mods by me to fix stop commands as well


git-svn-id: https://origsvn.digium.com/svn/asterisk/trunk@150930 65c4cc65-6c06-0410-ace0-fbb531ad65f3