Bridges: Fix feature interruption/unintended kick caused by external actions

If a manager or CLI user attached a mixmonitor to a call running a dynamic
bridge feature while in a bridge, the feature would be interrupted and the
channel would be forcibly kicked out of the bridge (usually ending the call
during a simple 1 to 1 call). This would also occur during any similar action
that could set the unbridge soft hangup flag, so the fix for this was to
remove unbridge from the soft hangup flags and make it a separate thing all
together.

ASTERISK-24027 #close
Reported by: mjordan
Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/3900/
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