Fix deadlock handling subscribe req during res_parking reload

Split destroy_hint method to separate hint removal and extension hint
state changed callback, the latter now called via stasis.
This avoids deadlock between res_parking reload that is removing the
parking lot and the related hint and subscribe requests coming for the
same parking lot.

ASTERISK-28173

Change-Id: I5b03c3455b3b12b6f83cea4cc34f4b4b20444f7e