The main problem here was that cstdlib was undefining free thereby causing the
proper debug macros to not be used. ast_h323.cxx has been changed to call
ast_free instead to avoid the issue. 

A few other issues were addressed:
- There were a few instances of functions improperly passing ast_free instead
of ast_free_ptr.
- Some clean up was done to avoid the debug macros intentionally being redefined.
(copied below from Kevin's commit, appreciate the help)
- disable astmm.h from doing anything when STANDALONE is defined, which is used
by the tools in the utils/ directory that use parts of Asterisk header files in
hackish ways; also ensure that utils/extconf.c and utils/conf2ael.c are
compiled with STANDALONE defined.

(closes issue #13593)
Reported by: pj



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