As channels join and leave an SFU the bridge_softmix module
needs to renegotiate to add and remove their streams from
the other participants. Previously this was done by constructing
the ideal stream topology every time but in the case of leave
this was incomplete.

This change makes it so bridge_softmix keeps an ideal stream
topology for each channel and uses it when making changes. This
ensures that when we request a renegotiation we are always
certain that we are aiming for the best stream topology
possible. In the case of a channel leaving this ensures that
we try to have an existing participant fill their place if
a participant has a fixed limit on the maximum number of video
streams they allow.

ASTERISK-27354

Change-Id: I58070f421ddeadd2844a33b869b052630cf2e514